Between visiting friends and family or enduring a permanent change of station, the military lifestyle can require a lot of extra travel.
It’s not so bad when you only have to plan a trip for yourself. But the challenge can rise dramatically when you have a child or children to bring along. There are ways to avoid the potential tantrums, sheer boredom and irksome insomnia.
Here are a few tips to effectively manage and enjoy your travels with kids:
Prepare Your Kids
Preparing your kids for traveling goes well beyond packing a few snacks for the road. Depending on the location and your time frame, you can start planning for it all weeks in advance.
Bedtime Routine
Parents tend to create a routine that eases their child into sleep mode, but before you establish a routine, consider how often you’ll need to travel. While a musical mobile may be an effective aid, it probably isn’t the easiest carry-on item, nor can you hang it from an overhead compartment. Consider a routine like putting a teddy bear to sleep, reading a story or singing a bedtime song.
Speaking of Routine
Avoid making a schedule if there are chances you’ll be traveling across time zones. Rather, establish a routine a young mind can follow—wake up, eat breakfast, shower, get dressed, etc. Kids can acclimate to a pattern and more easily adjust the time zone hop from California to Florida.
Prep the Picky Eater
If your child only eats peanut butter and strawberry jelly sandwiches cut into fours for lunch, you may be in trouble when it comes to having to eat on the run or in a foreign country. Establish a sense of cuisine curiosity at a young age by introducing your child to a variety of foods including fish, beans and multiple vegetables. For tips to turn a picky eater, you can search sites like AskDrSears.com.
Wean the Tech-Savvy
You may go to some places that are without Internet, computer games or phone service. Before your child starts foaming at the mouth from Facebook withdrawals, you can gradually wean them off by allocating a day without electricity. Sounds tough, but you can make it fun with candles, flashlights and board games.
During the Actual Travel
Pack some Munch:
Bring Mess-Free Distractions
Photo thanks to Heather Poole via Flickr Creative Commons
4 Comments
My best and favorite tip was always simple..before we begin our travel we Pray as a family,and once travel begin we Walk by Faith and not by site.Then we turn the rest over to Jesus and he always Worked it out!!
I just traveled via van from Virginia Beach to San Diego (and back) last summer with a 3, 2, and 1 yr old; it can be done! I made sandwiches and snacks to limit stops and we had a DVD player (must in our van). We stopped at several unique places across our beautiful country. Instead of unpacking “everything” to go into a hotel. When traveling with 5 people for a three week stay, there is a lot of “stuff” that magically appears for your trip. I would only bring in the smaller “hotel bag, ” which was the change of clothes just for that night. That was a huge time saver. The hotel bag and diaper bag was all we brought in. There were 3 hotel bags prepared for three different nights that we were staying in the hotel as we drove across the country.
I like the mess-free food idea.
Hi. I agree with you – 100% +. Thank you for the information. Mike.
I love the idea of preparing for the trip and the mess free food for the travel. I do however need to have some kind of electronic entertainment for them. I bring my iPad with me since I can do everything on it and not have to bring several things for it. They can play games, watch movies, and their favorite watch TV. With my provider/employer DISH Network I have the DISH Remote Access app on my iPad so the kids can watch live TV from anywhere we are at. They have access to all our subscription channels and DVR recordings. It is such a lifesaver on the travel, but once the traveling is done it gets put away for some fun.