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The age-old question: What should I wear?

4 Clues to Cracking the Military Ball Dress Code

Finding an age appropriate gown

The age-old question: What should I wear?

The military ball is an event that’s looked forward to by military members and their dates alike. It’s a night where those who have so dutifully served are allowed to indulge in some longstanding traditions, great food and drink, and a whole lot of fun.

For those who will be first-time dates to this year’s military ball, here are a few tips to keep in mind to make sure that you look appropriate and stylish: See More

Kristen Smith from Loving a Soldier

Join Our Military Spouse Bloggers Roundtable!

I’m very excited to introduce a new way to connect with Veterans United Network and Military Spouse Central. We will be hosting regular weekly Hangouts, or group video chats, on the Veterans United Home Loans Google+ page!

You will have an opportunity to participate in live video chats, ask questions and chat with us and other military spouses. I think this will be so much more personal, and we can really get to know you and answer questions that you have.

Our first Hangout:
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Pin Up Inspired Homecoming Outfit, please do! @VeteransUnited

Military Homecoming Fashion: What to Wear

This is the second part in a two part look at military homecomings.

Looking your best for your soldier

Picking an outfit for homecoming is all about making sure you feel attractive, comfortable and confident!I am typically a pretty low-maintenance girl who takes pride in having wash-and-wear hair and getting ready to go out in 20 minutes flat. When homecoming rolls around, all of that changes.

Suddenly, I transform into a woman I hardly know who frets and throws tantrums over dresses that “are all bunchy in all the wrong places.” I fall into the traps of I-have-nothing-to-wear and I-look-awful-in-everything-I-put-on.

It is important to remember that your welcome will be a great one, no matter what you wear. Your service member misses you. Homecoming is about love and you can’t do love wrong. But I don’t think there’s anything wrong with picking out a special outfit for homecoming and doing a little extra primping for your service member. The extra effort can help show significant others they’re special.

Over the last year lots of military spouses have asked me for advice on what to wear for homecoming. I am not a fashion expert, but here are some of my suggestions, examples, ideas and tips gathered from the military homecomings I ‘ve seen. See More

Military Homecoming

Military Spouses Share Tips for a Successful Homecoming

Advice from Military Spouses on Homecoming

This is one of those moments that you hope is perfect; advice on making the most of homecoming.

One of the most anxiety-ridden times for a military family is right before homecoming. There is often a high level of uncertainty about how the service member responded to the difficulties of deployment.

We asked readers about the stress of homecoming and collected some great ideas for how to ease it and make sure things go off without a hitch for you and your family. See More

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Military Spouse Deployment Bucket List

Many times a key part of coping with a deployment is keeping the mind busy. It sounds simple enough, but when military spouses are facing six months to a year without their spouse, trying to stay busy can get exhausting.

Making a deployment bucket list can ease the burden a bit and turn the months of deployment into a time for personal growth. It’s OK to spend some time considering what you can accomplish before your spouse returns, from travel and career building to fitness and social interaction.

Here are some popular ideas to consider:
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5 Tips for Fighting Deployment Insomnia

Imagine taking on all the responsibilities of a military spouse while struggling to get even a few hours of rest a night. Unfortunately, the additional stress makes insomnia a common problem among military spouses during deployment.

Spouses affected by insomnia during deployment

Insomnia is an all to common problem for military spouses during deployment.

Because the sleeplessness experienced by military spouses during deployment can be caused by a number of different things, there are several ways to combat it depending on why you think you’re losing sleep. Check out these tips to help you get a good night’s sleep during deployment and wake up ready to tackle even the busiest day.
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Lithium Batteries risk fire in transport

USPS Now Prohibits Shipping Lithium Batteries to Bases Overseas

Starting today, the U.S. Postal Service (USPS) will no longer allow lithium batteries or any products containing lithium batteries to be shipped to APO, FPO or DPO addresses.

The new rule applies regardless of the size, quantity or watt hours of the lithium battery. This means the shipping of all electronics containing a lithium battery, regardless of whether the battery is actually connected to the item, is prohibited.

This regulation will make it much more difficult for service members to receive electronics through the mail when stationed in overseas locations.

Check out our slideshow with all of the information on Google+.

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Soldiers receive mail from home

The Art of the Military Love Letter

How to write the perfect love letter

True romance is less hearts and rainbows and more like a taste of home.

The No. 1 requested item in a care package?

A letter.

It sounds simple but a letter is priceless to service members during a deployment or even training. I have never talked to a service member or veteran who didn’t think fondly of the letters they received. There is just something about a snail-mail, handwritten love letter. It is a physical reminder that you took time to sit down and write to your spouse. It is something tangible: your spouse can hold it, tuck it away in a pocket and revisit your words at any time.

I have written hundreds, maybe even thousands of letters.  Sometimes I feel like I can write 50 pages and pour my heart out and other times I pull a blank.  So here is some advice for when you are feeling less inspired and trying to craft that perfect love letter.

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Military Spouse Appreciation Day

INFOGRAPHIC: Military Spouse Appreciation Day

Happy Military Spouse Appreciation Day from Military Spouse Central and Veterans United Home Loans!
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Facebook

Military Spouse Notified of Her Husband’s Death on Facebook

Social media connects families to the home-front

Facebook is a great tool for helping military families stay connected but requires sound judgment about what’s shared.

The hardest thing about being deployed is being separated from loved ones. In the last few years, social media has changed everything, allowing military families to stay in touch from halfway around the world. But with all that progress comes the need for restraint and responsibility.

Claire Shackleford’s recent post on OPSEC outlined the “Dos and Don’ts” for protecting critical information and helping to keep our troops safe at home and on the battlefield. But even information that might not be considered critical can still be harmful if not handled through the proper channels. Here’s a truly awful example. See More

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Adrienne May

Adrienne May is a military spouse. Her husband is an Army soldier and now is serving in the Army National Guard. Together they have three children from preschool to pre-teen. Adrienne is actively involved in family readiness and disaster preparedness on the state level and advocating for military family programs, homecoming transition programs and adequate veterans benefits.


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